To all my frens...who came in my lives and made it worthwhile

To a friendship lost...???


There was a time when we were inseparable.
We both had this amazing telepathy thing, we were aware,
so aware of what the other was thinking of...
though we talked and chatted a lot , that was not our prime source of communication,
a look was enough to convey what a milllion words could not...
It was the purest form of affection I had ever experienced in life.
But now you seem so far away
We still talk, but we hardly communicate
Is our friendship lost?
Is the beautiful realtionship that means so much to me
lost for ever??
What went wrong
I keep wondering???
There was a time when we didnt have enough time to say all the things we wanted to talk about
but now our conversations dont move beyond Hello HRU??
But friend I am never ever gonna give up on you
I will be there for you always
For I will never ever forget, I remember every single moment ,
beautiful moments we have had
I will keep trying to 'talk' to u....
For I am and will always be your friend..

Captain Maverick

   [ POSTED BY Maverick @ 9:50 AM ] [ ]

Just warming up...."trust"..phew

I’ve been thinking lately, is “trust” really as important as we make it sound, and all these rhetorical hollywood movies have come to recognize it as a true sense of judging someone, but is not an overrated virtue ???

Think on these terms, “Ignorance is bliss”, “What you don’t know can’t harm you”, so if trust is something related to what you know, then I guess any liar with the power of conviction can get away with anything and everything. We are not compulsive liars, but I am not ashamed to say that I’ve told my share lies to get out of situations, which seem to go off for the moment, but then come right back to bite you in the rear.

I hear so often in movies or media of any kind, “trust is the key to a marriage, relationship”, Is it really ????

How many times have we ween partners asking for trustworthyness, yet some discreteness to be followed, the fact is we want discretion yet dont want others to have any, factual interpretations would lead us to beleive that although we might choose to ignore but we wont let people do the same...this is the oxymoronic state of mind we shell our lives in..

I have my doubts, trust comes into play only if it is made explicit, internally, everyone is possessive, and no one likes to be ignorant, but as they say, societal norms are not made to curb your natural instincts, so you better leave space for your partners, otherwise they will run for cover at the first signal.

If someone says that trust is to tell the other person about all the things you have done, so that trust is maintained, I guess we can classify that as honesty, but once broken, this so called “trust” can never mend, I think to myself why ??

Why the sudden awkward feeling trying to improve the current guilt of having ruined something important ??

Does anyone have an answer ???

Cheers mates,
Captain Maverick

   [ POSTED BY Maverick @ 1:28 PM ] [ ]